Thanks to all of you who provided their input and shared own experiences.  We have a TREMENDOUS family and spend a lot of time with certain groups (similar kids ages). I know that not everyone will understand the safety aspect, be considerate, or even care so I started this process as a teaching/learning opportunity.  I gave family members simple but informative handouts from KFA, FAAN, etc. I provided the signs/dangers of possible reactions, explained the blood and skin tests my daughter had to do since the age of 2, the potentially higher risk being highly asthmatic, etc. Maybe its TMI but if they keep doing things like this, I am going to keep reminding them until we eventually fade out and grow towards another social direction. I always bake something special for my daughter when we go to gatherings but honestly, sometimes I just get tired of dealing with the family because we, like many of you, are so vigilant daily when it comes to food. There isn't a day that allergies (both food and non-food) are not on our radar. As my daughter gets older, a component that we did not think of when she was younger is the emotional part.  I also think due to all the incidents within the family, she has become very hesitant to trust certain people.  I don't question that trust or her judgment. It is as simple as "will you feel comfortable" with that person.  In other words, will that person be an advocate for you and know what to do in an emergency situation.  And if she gets invited to go out with those who she can answer yes to (in her own mind) she will go.  And she is also getting older where she can be her own advocate and has to in order to do the fun things her friends do.  In fact, a dear family members suggested that she talk to the offenders in the family directly and maybe she will have more of an impact than my husband or myself. But I find myself leaning away from my family not just because of this, but as another straw as the relationships are not the healthiest anyway, so maybe I shouldn't be complaining after all! My daughter is confident, communicative, talented and has great instincts. We want to foster that so she can grow to be her strongest advocate (next to me of course!).

我将使用蜜蜂过敏类比确定性。我想分享一下去年3月我们参加了Larchmont州Larchmont儿童支持组,这对我的女儿非常有权力。我们以家庭身份出行,所以我的儿子(无过敏/但哮喘并拥有多重环境)护送她(16),他对其他孩子在一次训练中显示的情感感到非常惊讶。我将继续寻找本地儿童,希望更多不需要超过几个小时的驾驶时间。

感谢允许我放行-它不可能比这里通过其他理解父母感觉更好

康斯坦斯,我从不知道 美国文化多以食物为中心社交 直到我有一个孩子 重花生树螺过敏长而苦地重新思考食物作为养分,而非娱乐,我们的女儿以这种方式成长看食物或带回自己女儿的食物。 校对:Portnoy当我们娱乐和决定包括食物时,我们提供所有食物和饮料覆盖盘子绝非选项,主要因为交叉污染女儿参加生日晚会时,我与父母聊天,并会随同送女儿的食物-如纸杯蛋糕或布朗尼-到晚会,遇有紧急情况,我留在该区向宾客通知过敏并保持近距离发现她无法生活在花生/树核素世界中, 因此我们建模使用简单句不谢你,我坐在厨房里, 我父亲开罐花生酱, 我发现这对我的孩子来说是一个教程时刻, 因为我爸爸代表着一个忘记、无知或根本不在乎的人。发现当人们不积极响应时,我比较我女儿过敏与蜜蜂过敏我告诉人们,他们不会梦想把蜜蜂巢贴在有严重蜜蜂过敏症的孩子旁边,所以我问他们,他们为什么认为带花生树坚果靠近我的孩子安全?

上中学时我在学校也使用这个类比-Be类比真管用myDD1很少访问她的祖父母, 因为他们家忽略花生沾染我想我们必须并行生活

问题有效我发现那些无视我尊重请求者不理解问题2有点反社会 缺乏同情感或爱心重新解析易理解词并重获相同响应: 视二项为正在发生之事

读玛莎Stout的书你会大吃一惊

问题寄出者处境相似

多集会并请求人们不带花生、树坚果或芝麻到我们家。人们相当愿意顺从。我视之为食物过敏运动的一部分。大多数人真的不知道,没有人想对食物作出反应。无名氏

所以,我尽我所能用愉快的方式表达事物 而不是像强迫控制父子个人都乐于听从我的评论, 让人们寻找新的趣味配方等

宿主帮助降低食物风险-我们喜欢开派对-我们总是提供最有可能无意识地有花生、树坚果或芝麻-面包、饼干等项目-我常要求人们带水果或蔬菜或奶酪或芝士来,这样容易得多

当我们去聚会时, 我们和女儿谈事前, 并识别任何特殊食物并带安全版本它。基本上,我随身带安全糖果/处理所有时间

请求玩伴在进食后洗手和脸-到目前为止,人们乐于顺从

多观察多事 诚实地改变社区事件 面向全家. 但是,我不断提醒自己. 如果我们想参加事件..............

最近我们家未受邀参加其他地方的集会, 我在想食物过敏症(及我的食物需求)是否与实情相关

女儿相当担心别人提供的食物-她所有反应都来自别人提供的食物并发誓安全。最后反应大到令她相当恐惧和高度焦虑

难说 难说

康斯坦斯-听上去你们都做了一个惊人的工作 养大了一个成熟的负责任的女儿库多斯

接得好 Kandi

10岁26岁讨论非常不同的事情至少我希望他们这样做!实战组或虚拟组

不在FB上, 但不是13岁最小值吗?很高兴看到青壮年想连接, 我希望集团能反映FB的年龄约束

个人脸书群组10-26带食物过敏https://www.facebook.com/group...allergiesarentajoke/他们的描述表示团队“本意是培养积极性并创建安全环境,让有食物过敏的青少年和孩子公开谈论诊断和过敏生活。”

高超类比发现人反应良好吗

I am really glad that there will be a webinar soon on anxiety in children with food allergies.  My 13 year old daughter is suffering terribly from anxiety related to her food allergies.   She was restricting food because she was only eating things she felt were 'safe" at school --which amounted to very little.  She lost weight, was very labile in her moods and was eventually hospitalized for weight loss/restricted eating back in June.   She is doing a little better and has regained weight but her anxiety over her allergies is still very much controlling her.    We are going away for a few nights soon and she keeps asking me what she will eat when we are away.  She doesn't think she will trust the pots and pans in the rental house etc.     Of course I have talked to her and tried to reassure her and the allergist has told her that he has been doing this a long time and he has not lost a single patient to food allergies etc.   We tried a therapist once right before (the night of) her admission to the hospital but, to say it did not go well would be a huge understatement.  We really need to find someone who understands both anxiety and food allergies and that is not as simple as it might sound.       Hopefully, this webinar will be able to help.   I do think that talking to other kids the same age would help but I cannot seem to find such a blog/site.

玩个愉快的夜晚

感谢书推荐金伯利

很高兴看到你插手!处理社会状况之方法听起来棒极了!相信他人食物可能很难-我们肯定有问题 w//

Hi欢迎

儿子小时我约束性更高(他多食过敏并接触乳制品反应性,

现在他上中学-远非如此

问题大,问题大,问题大。很多次,取决于孩子的年龄,如果他们知道接触或机载反应。有时其他人就是不理解并需要教育

听上去你正在做一个伟大的工作Constance并有一个很好的透视事物!

Hi每个人:

下图链接 视频和讲义从Dr.罗森布卢姆

应对食品过敏症:回校和更多

Kandi群描述表示 任何未到FB年龄的孩子 都可有双亲跑步使用他们的侧写

hugs Colleen-对d.d.axient可能真的难以反射。我很高兴她做得更好,但听起来你还有很长的路程。Teens最近对他们压力很大,然后加注FA推算,这可能太多了

我有一个问题-父母有潜在严重反应pn/nut过敏处理方式允许孩子环顾其他消费产品者家庭成员完全无视我的女儿疯狂过敏, 虽然她不会采样一切, 我发现自己限制每个人带有潜在有害食物环绕她,某些人觉得这是超载/偏向行为,允许其他人在heshe出现时吃潜在危险项吗?